30 Mar 1709, Mary Wilder appointed guardian to son Oliver, a minor in his sixteenth year [birth about 1694]. 16 Jun 1713, Ephraim Wilder appointed guardian of his brother Oliver, a minor in this twentieth year [birth about 1694]. [This source gives a death date of 8 Mar 1763 which appears to be wrong.]
[#43] Here lies interred ye Body of Col. Oliver Wilder who died March ye 16 A Domini 1765, in the 71 Year of his Age. The stroke of Death hath laid my Head, Down in this Dark & Silent Bed; The Trump shall sound, I hope to rise And meet my Saviour in the Skies. [Age 70, so born about 1694-5.]