Person:Mary Habowska (1)

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Mary Margaret Habowska
m. Abt 1873
  1. Rose H HABOWSKA1874 - 1916
  2. Mary Margaret Habowska1879 - 1952
m. 29 Apr 1895
  1. Joseph Frank (SEPETOWSKI) SMITH1896 - 1971
Facts and Events
Name Mary Margaret Habowska
Alt Name Mae Smith
Gender Female
Birth[1] 17 Feb 1879 Indianapolis, Marion, Indiana
Census[8] 1880 NOT FOUND
Marriage 29 Apr 1895 Saint Louis, Missourito Frank J Sepetowski
Census[3] 12 Jun 1900 Saint Louis, Missouri
Divorce Filing 1903 Saint Louis, Missourifrom Frank J Sepetowski
Divorce 23 Feb 1904 Saint Louis, Missourifrom Frank J Sepetowski
Census[4] 27 Apr 1910 Chicago, Cook, Illinois
Residence? From est 1915 to 1950 Fort Wayne, Allen, Indiana3236 Fairfield Ave, Ft Wayne IN
Census[5] 1 Jan 1920 Fort Wayne, Allen, Indiana
Occupation? Bet 1920 and 1940 Fort Wayne, Allen, Indiana - Moskin's Clothingseamstress
Occupation? Apr 1930 Fort Wayne, Allen, Indianaassistant housekeeper at a hotel
Census[6] 3 Apr 1930 Fort Wayne, Allen, Indiana
Residence[9] From 1951 to 1952 Coeur d'Alene, Kootenai, Idaho, United Stateswith grandchildren Secondary date: 1 JUL 1951
Death[2] 6 Jul 1952 Fort Wayne, Allen, Indiana
Burial[2] Saint Louis, Missouri

Mary changed her name to SMITH when she moved from St Louis after Frank tried to kill her. She moved to Cincinnati, then to Chicago, where she married Doc ATHERTON. They lived in Ft Wayne IN until she died. In 1951, she went into a rest home, after visiting Mary K and Jim out west.

References
  1. Louise (AHLERT) STOPKE, JARZEMSKI (or JARZEMBOWSKI) papers; three-page typescript (Detroit MI: author, July 1973).

    Possible birthdate error, based on presence of other factual errors, and Mae's claim to be 17 when she married.

  2. 2.0 2.1 Louise (AHLERT) STOPKE, JARZEMSKI (or JARZEMBOWSKI) papers; three-page typescript (Detroit MI: author, July 1973).
  3. 1900 US census.

    1900 MO St Louis ED 251 p202A
    Mary M, wife, b Feb 1879 IL GER GER, age 21, married 5 years, 1 birth/living.
    with husband [previous page] and son Joseph, 4.

  4. 1910 US Census
    1910 IL Cook Chicago ward 2 ED207 sht 8A.

    with Doc ATHERTON and son [both q.v.], at 5100 Groveland Avenue: family #170
    Mary M SMITH, servant, 31 IN POL POL, divorced; 1birth/living, housekeeper, private home.

  5. 1920 US census
    1920 IN Allen Ft Wayne, ward 6, ED 12, sheet 24, 3236 Fairfield Ave.

    Dr Onesimus G ATHERTON, 73 KY KY KY, meat [packing] inspector; owns home, with mortgage.
    Mary, wife, 40 IN GER GER, not employed.

  6. 1930 US Census.

    1930 IN Allen Ft Wayne, ward 3, ED 48, sheet 3A, [p 41]; 3236 Fairfield Ave.
    Mae ATHERTON, 51 IN GER GER, widowed; assistant housekeeper at hotel. Owns home [value $4000] and radio.

  7.   Rev Urban STANOWSKI, Roman Catholic Priest, Application for license, and copy of license (15 April 1895), St Louis MO, Marriage License numbe
    Mary claimed to be 17 on application.
  8. looking for variations of name in 1880 census index, looking at Indpls, Radom, E StL and StL; also for associated names: HABOWSKA, florien, jarzemski and vars;
  9. Kay remembers Grandma ATHERTON had a lavender dish filled with chocolates.
    Mae always worked, usually as a seamstress. After she quit, probably about war-time, she lived in Cd'A for about a year, with Jim & Mary Kay RANSOM off and on, otherwise with Mary Kay's brother Bob SMITH. Bob talked her into coming out, and thought she'd find a job and stay. She sent her trunks out ahead, and when they came, Bob opened them and displayed all her stuff, including dishes that Mae intended to give to Mary Kay. He just displayed them, but May thought he wanted them, so she gave her diamond ring to Kay.

    When Eileen was born, Isabel was in the hospital, and Joe & Mae brought movers in, moved the whole family into Grandma ATHERTON's house.

    When we went over to Grandma's house, Isabel would stay in the car the whole time, while Joe and the kids would visit. We always spent Thanksgiving at Mae's house, and she came to our house at Christmas.
    Doc ATHERTON was in a wheel chair, was there until Mary Kay was 5 or 6.
    --phone call, Mike RANSOM and Mary Kay RANSOM, 9 January 2000.