Person:Mary Estes (19)

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Mary Sanford Estes
m. 14 Jul 1878
  1. James Neely Estes1879 - 1959
  2. Mary Sanford EstesAbt 1881 - 1956
m. Abt 1896
  1. Mammie Ellen Barkley1896 -
m. 2 Feb 1902
  1. Eula 'Jula' MarkhamAbt 1903 -
  2. Zula J. MarkhamAbt 1906 - Bef 2014
  3. Beulah Markham1906 - 1995
  4. Paul Blackburn Markham1908 - 1984
Facts and Events
Name Mary Sanford Estes
Gender Female
Birth[1] Abt 1881 Franklin, Simpson County, Kentucky
Marriage Abt 1896 to Thomas "Tom" Barkley
Marriage 2 Feb 1902 Simpson County, Kentuckyto Edward Elmore 'Elmer' Markham
Death[5] 23 Jan 1956 Indianapolis, Marion County, Indiana

Parentage

Some researchers have placed Mary's maiden name as Barkley since that is the name listed on her Marriage Certificate [listed as "M.S. Barkley"] to Elmer E. Markham 1902 in Simpson County, Kentucky [Kentucky, County Marriage Records, 1783-1965]. A key piece of evidence proving her as an "Estes" is one of the witnesses listed on the Marriage Certificate: "Neely Estes". This is James Neely Estes (1879-1959), son of William Andrew Estes and Ella Akin, and James Neely Estes was the older sibling of Mary Estes. And the second witness to the Marriage Certificate is listed as M.E. Gibbs, who is the MOTHER of Mary Estes, who had re-married in 1886 to Joseph Gibbs [source: 1900 U.S. Census Record]. The marriage also took place at the residence of her mother in Simpson County, Kentucky per the Marriage Certificate, shown below:

Image:Marriage record of EE Markham and M.S. Estes 1902 Simpson Co., KY Zoom.jpg

In addition to this evidence, two other official records list Mary as "Mary Estes":

1) The 1910 U.S. Census lists Mary Markham as having a prior marriage, supporting the marriage certificate as Mary having a likely prior marriage to a "Tom Barkley", as listed in the Marriage Records of Mary's daughter Mammie Ellen Barkley/Markham, who was born 25 Oct 1896 in Kentucky. [Source: Indiana, Select Marriages Index, 1748-1993].
2) Mary is also clearly listed as "Mary Estes" on the Certificate of Death of her daughter Ruth, and in the Marriage record of her son Paul Blackburn Markham.

Also, Mary is listed as "Mary Sanford Markham" in the Marriage Records of her daughter Mammie Ellen Barkley, born 1896. She was the daughter of Mary and her [possible] first husband, Tom Barkley. [Indiana, Select Marriages Index, 1748-1993]

Based upon her listing of "M.S. Barkley" on her Marriage Certificate, Mary had a very short marriage to a "Tom Barkley" who likely died [or ended in divorce] prior to her marriage to Elmer Markham. [per her Find-A-Grave page].

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References
  1. National Archives and Records Administration. 1910 Miracode Index.

    Kentucky 1910 Miracode Index
    Name: Elmer Markham
    Birthplace: Kentucky
    County: Warren, Bowling Green
    Relatives:
    Wife Mary 29, Kentucky
    Daughter Minnie 13, Kentucky
    Daughter Eula 07, Kentucky
    Daughter Zula 04, Kentucky
    Daughter Beulah 04, Kentucky
    Son Paul NR, Kentucky
    Son-in-law Melvin Ellis 21, Kentucky
    Daughter Verna Ellis 17, Kentucky
    Enumeration District: 0122
    Visit: 0431
    Color: W
    Age: 34

  2.   Indiana, United States. Indiana Marriages, 1780-1992. (FamilySearch Record Search).

    Indiana, Select Marriages, 1780-1992
    Name: Mary Estes
    Gender: Female
    Spouse: Elmer Markham
    Child: Paul Blackburn Markham
    Note: Marriage record was for son Paul Blackburn Markham and Farrell Wnionee Reveal on 31 March 1934 in Indianapolis, Boone, Indiana

  3.   Indiana, United States. Indiana Marriages, 1780-1992. (FamilySearch Record Search).

    Indiana, Select Marriages, 1780-1992
    Name: Mary Sanford Estes Markham
    Gender: Female
    Spouse: Edward Elmore Markham
    Child: Paul Blackburn Markham

  4.   U.S. City Directories, 1821-1995: [database on-line]. (Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2011).

    U.S. City Directories, 1821-1989
    Name: Mary S Markham
    Gender: Female
    Residence Year: 1908
    Street address: Washington cor 14th
    Residence Place: Bowling Green, Kentucky
    Spouse: Elmer E Markham
    Publication Title: Bowling Green, Kentucky, City Directory, 1908

  5. Ancestry.com. Public Member Trees: (Note: not considered a reliable primary source).
  6.   Find A Grave.

    Mary Sanford Estes Markham
    Birth 1881
    Franklin, Simpson County, Kentucky, USA
    Death 23 Jan 1956 (aged 74–75)
    Indianapolis, Marion County, Indiana, USA
    Burial
    Floral Park Cemetery
    Indianapolis, Marion County, Indiana, USA

    Mary's maiden name seemed somewhat of a mystery because her children's death certificates give a variety of maiden names for her: Beulah, Ruby, and Ruth's show Estes, Zula's shows Sanford, and Paul's shows Gibbs.

    Find A Grave contributor Delijim reports that Mary was the daughter of William Andrew Estes & Ella Akin.

    Sanford was her middle name, so that resolves that potential maiden name. After her father's death, her mother married a Gibbs, so that is how the Gibbs surname was erroneously attributed to Mary.

    Mary married:
    (1) Tom Barkley
    (2) Elmer E. Markham on 2 Feb 1902 in Simpson Co., KY.

    Mary's obituary in the "Indianapolis Star" included: ". . .mother of Mrs. Chester Sprinkles, Mrs. Robert Wright, Mrs. Thomas Lambert, Mrs. Cecil Kepler and Paul Markham. . ."

    Mrs. Chester Sprinkles = Zula; Mrs. Robert Wright = Mamie Ellen; Mrs. Thomas Lambert = Beulah; Mrs. Cecil Kepler = Eula Mae. Note that Mamie Ellen is the daughter of Mary and Tom Barkley. The other children are Mary and Elmer Markham's.

    According to her obituary, Mary died at the Indianapolis home of her daughter, Mrs. Chester Sprinkles.

    https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/166632689/mary-markham?

  7.   United States. 1910 U.S. Census Population Schedule. (National Archives Microfilm Publication T624).

    Name: Mary Markham
    Age in 1910: 39 [a/b 29] transcription error
    Birth Date: 1871 [s/b 1881]
    Birthplace: Kentucky
    Home in 1910: Bowling Green Ward 3, Warren, Kentucky, USA
    Street: Stubbins Street
    Race: White
    Gender: Female
    Relation to Head of House: Wife
    Marital Status: Married
    Spouse's Name: Elmer Markham
    Father's Birthplace: Kentucky
    Mother's Birthplace: Kentucky
    Native Tongue: English
    Able to read: Yes
    Able to Write: Yes
    Years Married: 9
    Number of Children Born: 6
    Number of Children Living: 5
    Household Members Age Relationship
    Elmer Markham 34 Head
    Mary Markham 39 [s/b 29] Wife
    Mannie [s/b Mammie] Markham 13 Daughter
    Eula Markham 7 Daughter
    Zula Markham 4 Daughter
    Beulah Markham 4 Daughter
    Paul Markham 1 Son
    Melvin Ellis 21 Son-in-law
    Vera Ellis 17 Daughter

  8.   United States. 1920 U.S. Census Population Schedule. (National Archives Microfilm Publication T625).

    Name: Mary Markham
    Age: 38
    Birth Year: abt 1882
    Birthplace: Kentucky
    Home in 1920: Indianapolis Ward 4, Marion, Indiana
    Residence Date: 1920
    Race: White
    Gender: Female
    Relation to Head of House: Wife
    Marital Status: Married
    Spouse's Name: Elmer Markham
    Father's Birthplace: Kentucky
    Mother's Birthplace: Kentucky
    Able to Speak English: Yes
    Able to read: Yes
    Able to Write: Yes
    Household Members Age Relationship
    Elmer Markham 46 Head
    Mary Markham 38 Wife
    Jula Markham 17 Daughter
    Zula Markham 13 Daughter
    Beulah Markham 13 Daughter
    Paul Markham 11 Son