May was a great catch (with a dowry of more than $20,000,000), and at one point the reprobate 9th Duke of Manchester announced his engagement to her as a way of calming his creditors. Roxburghe was a fitting match for May; a cousin of the 9th Duke of Marlborough (husband of Consuelo Vanderbilt), he carried Queen Alexandra’s crown at the coronation. They lived mostly in Scotland; she redecorated Floors, where the current Duke and Duchess of York became engaged, in the style that largely remains. An heir was finally born in 1913 (to the putative disappointment of Anna Breese, married to the younger brother Lord Alastair Innes-Ker). Having inherited her mother’s box in the Diamond Horseshoe at the Metropolitan Opera House, May often visited New York after the Duke’s death in 1932.