Person:Phoebe Bender (3)

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Phoebe Catherine Bender
m. 22 Mar 1853
  1. Hiram Elmer Bender1852 - 1852
  2. Lucy Idella Bender1855 - 1877
  3. Franklin Edgar Bender1857 - 1933
  4. Phoebe Catherine Bender1863 - 1954
  5. Mary Elizabeth Bender1866 - 1954
  6. Electa Belle Bender1868 - 1949
  7. Ruby Diora Bender1873 - 1953
m. 1906
m. Bef 1930
Facts and Events
Name Phoebe Catherine Bender
Alt Name Cassie _____
Alt Name Phebe Catherine (Cassie) BENDER
Gender Female
Birth[1][2][3][4][5][6] 5 Jul 1863 Hassan, Lorain County, OhioPrimary: Y
Other[14] 6 Jul 1863 Phoebe Catherine was named after Melissa's sister, Phoebe, (but Phoebe Catherine was knownas Cassie) Event
Other[15] 1864 Jacob, Melissa, Lucy, Frank, and Cassie move from Lorain to Hancock County, Ohio. Event
Other[16] 1868 Jacob, Melissa, Lucy, Franklin, Cassie, Mary, and Electa move to Algansee, Branch County, Michigan Event
Residence[17] 25 Jul 1870 Algansee Township, Branch County, Michigan
Other[18] 1877 Jacob, Melissa, Franklin, Cassie, Mary, Electa and Ruby move to farm northeast of Quincy, Michigan. Event
Other[19] 13 Jun 1877 Algansee Township, Branch County, MichiganLucy dies from burns due to cooking fire. Event
Residence[20] 5 Jun 1880 Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
Other[21] 5 Jun 1880 Quincy, Branch County, MichiganCassie at age 17 is not listed as deaf on the 1880 census -- and she attended school. Event
Other[22] 5 Jun 1880 Quincy, Branch County, MichiganDid Cassie become deaf in childhood? Event
Census[23] 18 Jun 1900 Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
Marriage 1906 to George B. Soper
Census[24] 30 Apr 1910 Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
Other[25] Bef 1919 Cassie was widowed. Event
Other[26] 7 Jan 1920 Quincy, Branch County, MichiganCassie had been caring for Jacob in his last days. Event
Census[27] 8 Jan 1920 Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
Marriage Bef 1930 to Watson H. Kelsey
Census[28] 13 Apr 1930 Coldwater, Branch County, Michigan
Other[29] Abt 1934 Mr. Kelsey preceded Cassie in death 20 years before her own death. Event
Other[30] 25 Jan 1954 Cecile stayed with Cassie the last 10 days of her life. Event
Death[7][8][9][10] 5 Feb 1954 Coldwater, Branch County, Michigan
Burial[11][12] Feb 1954 Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
Other[13] Cassie had no children. NoChildren

Phoebe may have been called Cassie.


References
  1. GEDCOM file submitted by From Bruce Bender. Created on 26 NOV 2006. Imported on 26 Nov 2006..
  2. 1880 Census.

    1880 Census – Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
    5 June 1880

    Bender, Jacob, white male, age 50, head, married, occupation: farmer, born Germany, parents born Germany
    Melissa, white female, age 48, wife, married, occupation: housekeeping, born New York, parents born New York

    Franklin E., white male, age 22, son, single, farming, born Ohio.
    Phebe C., white female, age 17, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Mary E. white female, age 14, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Electa A., white female, age 12, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Ruby, white female, age 6, daughter, single, attended school, born Michigan

  3. 1870 Census.

    1870 Census – Algansee, Branch County, Michigan
    25 July 1870

    Bender, Jacob, age 40, white male, farmer, 1,400 real estate value, 390 personal estate, born Holland, parents of foreign birth.

    Melissa, age 38, white female, keeping house, born New York,
    Lucy, age 14, white female, at home, born Ohio, father of foreign birth.
    Franklin, age 12, white male, at home, born Ohio, father of foreign birth.
    Phoebe, age 7, white female, born Ohio
    Mary, age 5, white female, born Ohio.
    Electa, age 3, white female, born Ohio

  4. Funeral Card.

    IN MEMORY OF CATHERINE BENDER KELSEY

    Date of Birth July 5, 1863 Loraine County, Ohio
    Passed Away February 5, 1954 Coldwater, Michigan
    Service February 7, 1954 at Rawson Funeral Home Quincy, Michigan
    Clergy Elmer Anderson Quincy, Michigan

    Laid to Rest Lakeview Cemetery Quincy, Michigan

    I am using the Lorain County birth place because it is in the Funeral Card.
    I am still not sure whether it was Lorain or Hancock County.

  5. Newspaper
    Obituary for Catherine Bender Kelsey.

    Saturday, February 6, 1954

    Dies Friday at Hospital

    QUINCY – Mrs. Catherine (Cassie) Bender Kelsey, 90, died Friday in Coldwater following a long illness. Funeral services will be held at the Rawson funeral home Sunday afternoon, at 2 o’clock, with Elmer Anderson officiating. Burial will be made at Lakeview cemetery.

    She was born July 5, 1863, at Lorain, Ohio, the daughter of Jacob and Melissa (Van Orsdal) Bender. She was married to Watson Kelsey who preceded her in death 20 years ago.

    She is survived by one sister, Mrs. Mary Sisson of Romulus; a niece, Mrs. Cecile Strobel of Detroit; and several other nieces and nephews.

    Mrs. Kelsey had lived almost her entire life in Quincy and vicinity.

  6. 1920 Census.

    1920 Census for Quincy village, Quincy Township, Branch County, Michigan
    7 & 8 January 1920

    4 Hawley Street
    Bender, Jacob, Head, owns farm, white male, age 90, immigrated in 1829, was not naturalized, no occupation
    Soper, Phebe C., daughter, white female, age 56, widowed, born Ohio, no occupation

  7. Family Group Record
    of Jacob and Melissa VanOrsdal Bender from Ira A. VanOrsdal of Cherry Log, Georgia.
  8. GEDCOM file submitted by From Bruce Bender. Created on 26 NOV 2006. Imported on 26 Nov 2006..
  9. Newspaper
    Obituary for Catherine Bender Kelsey.

    Saturday, February 6, 1954

    Dies Friday at Hospital

    QUINCY – Mrs. Catherine (Cassie) Bender Kelsey, 90, died Friday in Coldwater following a long illness. Funeral services will be held at the Rawson funeral home Sunday afternoon, at 2 o’clock, with Elmer Anderson officiating. Burial will be made at Lakeview cemetery.

    She was born July 5, 1863, at Lorain, Ohio, the daughter of Jacob and Melissa (Van Orsdal) Bender. She was married to Watson Kelsey who preceded her in death 20 years ago.

    She is survived by one sister, Mrs. Mary Sisson of Romulus; a niece, Mrs. Cecile Strobel of Detroit; and several other nieces and nephews.

    Mrs. Kelsey had lived almost her entire life in Quincy and vicinity.

  10. Letter
    from Cecile to Norma Strang Larsen.

    I don't want the beginning of this letter to be completely on the morbid side, but just one more paragraph of that nature.

    Aunt Cassie died February 5th. I was with her for ten days prior to her death and I'm glad I could be as there was no one else who would or could have done the same. She was in her 91st year and life had grown to be a great burden to her. Her resources were nearly depleted so I drew on my own funds to provide the kind of burial she deserved.

  11. Family Group Record
    of Jacob and Melissa VanOrsdal Bender from Ira A. VanOrsdal of Cherry Log, Georgia.
  12. Newspaper
    Obituary for Catherine Bender Kelsey.

    Saturday, February 6, 1954

    Dies Friday at Hospital

    QUINCY – Mrs. Catherine (Cassie) Bender Kelsey, 90, died Friday in Coldwater following a long illness. Funeral services will be held at the Rawson funeral home Sunday afternoon, at 2 o’clock, with Elmer Anderson officiating. Burial will be made at Lakeview cemetery.

    She was born July 5, 1863, at Lorain, Ohio, the daughter of Jacob and Melissa (Van Orsdal) Bender. She was married to Watson Kelsey who preceded her in death 20 years ago.

    She is survived by one sister, Mrs. Mary Sisson of Romulus; a niece, Mrs. Cecile Strobel of Detroit; and several other nieces and nephews.

    Mrs. Kelsey had lived almost her entire life in Quincy and vicinity.

  13. Newspaper
    Obituary for Catherine Bender Kelsey.

    Saturday, February 6, 1954

    Dies Friday at Hospital

    QUINCY – Mrs. Catherine (Cassie) Bender Kelsey, 90, died Friday in Coldwater following a long illness. Funeral services will be held at the Rawson funeral home Sunday afternoon, at 2 o’clock, with Elmer Anderson officiating. Burial will be made at Lakeview cemetery.

    She was born July 5, 1863, at Lorain, Ohio, the daughter of Jacob and Melissa (Van Orsdal) Bender. She was married to Watson Kelsey who preceded her in death 20 years ago.

    She is survived by one sister, Mrs. Mary Sisson of Romulus; a niece, Mrs. Cecile Strobel of Detroit; and several other nieces and nephews.

    Mrs. Kelsey had lived almost her entire life in Quincy and vicinity.

  14. Letter
    from Cecile Ryan Strobel to Norma Strang Larsen.

    Grandma Bender (Melissa) named her children after a lot of those Phillipses and others of her ancestors. For instance: Melissa’s son, Hiram , who died as a baby, was named after Hiram Phillips; Lucy Idella after Lucy Phillips; Mary Elizabeth after Elizabeth VanOrsdal (Melissa's Mother) and Ruby Bender after one of Isaac's children and born on the same day as Ruby R.. Oct. 9. Electa Belle Bender Strang maybe was named after Belle Fey, a niece in Ohio. Phoebe Catherine after Melissa's sister, Phoebe. Phoebe Catherine was always known as Cassie

  15. Obituary
    Obituary for Jacob Bender.

    Jacob Bender was born October 11, 1829 and died January 5, 1920, aged 90 years, two months and 24 days. He was married to Melissa Van Orsdal, March 22, 1853. Mrs. Bender died February 21, 1903, they having been married 50 years lacking one month.

    The moved from their residence in Lorain County to Hancock County, Ohio in 1864, where they resided four years.

    They then moved to Algansee, Michigan where they resided until 1877, from thence they moved to their farm in northeast Quincy, where they have made their home 38 years, moving to Qunicy Village five years ago. Seven children were born to them, five of whom are now living. Frank Bender of Litchfield, Cassie Soper of Quincy, Mary Sisson of Rock Springs, Montana, Electa Strang and Ruby Ryan of Quincy, Michigan, besides fifteen grandchildren and ten great grandchildren.

    Mr . Bender was a man of great vitality, having had very little sickness during his long life, and retained his mental faculties perfectly up to a few hours preceding his death.

    The funeral services were held at the home on Jackson Street Wednesday afternoon., January 7, Rev. C. D. Page officiating with burial at Lakeview cemetery.

  16. Obituary
    Obituary for Jacob Bender.

    Jacob Bender was born October 11, 1829 and died January 5, 1920, aged 90 years, two months and 24 days. He was married to Melissa Van Orsdal, March 22, 1853. Mrs. Bender died February 21, 1903, they having been married 50 years lacking one month.

    The moved from their residence in Lorain County to Hancock County, Ohio in 1864, where they resided four years.

    They then moved to Algansee, Michigan where they resided until 1877, from thence they moved to their farm in northeast Quincy, where they have made their home 38 years, moving to Qunicy Village five years ago. Seven children were born to them, five of whom are now living. Frank Bender of Litchfield, Cassie Soper of Quincy, Mary Sisson of Rock Springs, Montana, Electa Strang and Ruby Ryan of Quincy, Michigan, besides fifteen grandchildren and ten great grandchildren.

    Mr . Bender was a man of great vitality, having had very little sickness during his long life, and retained his mental faculties perfectly up to a few hours preceding his death.

    The funeral services were held at the home on Jackson Street Wednesday afternoon., January 7, Rev. C. D. Page officiating with burial at Lakeview cemetery.

  17. 1870 Census.

    1870 Census – Algansee, Branch County, Michigan
    25 July 1870

    Bender, Jacob, age 40, white male, farmer, 1,400 real estate value, 390 personal estate, born Holland, parents of foreign birth.

    Melissa, age 38, white female, keeping house, born New York,
    Lucy, age 14, white female, at home, born Ohio, father of foreign birth.
    Franklin, age 12, white male, at home, born Ohio, father of foreign birth.
    Phoebe, age 7, white female, born Ohio
    Mary, age 5, white female, born Ohio.
    Electa, age 3, white female, born Ohio

  18. Obituary
    Obituary for Jacob Bender.

    Jacob Bender was born October 11, 1829 and died January 5, 1920, aged 90 years, two months and 24 days. He was married to Melissa Van Orsdal, March 22, 1853. Mrs. Bender died February 21, 1903, they having been married 50 years lacking one month.

    The moved from their residence in Lorain County to Hancock County, Ohio in 1864, where they resided four years.

    They then moved to Algansee, Michigan where they resided until 1877, from thence they moved to their farm in northeast Quincy, where they have made their home 38 years, moving to Qunicy Village five years ago. Seven children were born to them, five of whom are now living. Frank Bender of Litchfield, Cassie Soper of Quincy, Mary Sisson of Rock Springs, Montana, Electa Strang and Ruby Ryan of Quincy, Michigan, besides fifteen grandchildren and ten great grandchildren.

    Mr . Bender was a man of great vitality, having had very little sickness during his long life, and retained his mental faculties perfectly up to a few hours preceding his death.

    The funeral services were held at the home on Jackson Street Wednesday afternoon., January 7, Rev. C. D. Page officiating with burial at Lakeview cemetery.

  19. Newspaper
    on Death of Lucy Idella Bender Poats.

    Death of Lucy Idella Bender Poats

    Mrs. Frank Poats of Algansee, was so terribly burned on Wednesday last by her clothing taking fire from a cook stove, that she died in about 12 hours from the time of the accident. She was the daughter of J. Bender, was 21 years of age, and had been married only about one year.


    QUINCY ITEMS below:
    Quincy, June 14, 1877
    ~~~A most distressing and fatal accident occurred in Algansee yesterday, some seven miles from here. Mrs. Lucy I. Poats, wife of Frank Poats, was at work about a cook stove, when she discovered that her clothing was on fire. She caught a quilt from the bed and tried to smother the fire by wrapping herself in it, but did not succeed in putting it out. Her husband, who was near, came to her help, but before the fire was extinguished it had burned off a large part of her clothing. From her waist down, and on both arms, the flesh was literally cooked. She lived some twelve hours afterward, when death relieved her sufferings. She had been married a little more than a year, and was in her 22nd year.

  20. 1880 Census.

    1880 Census – Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
    5 June 1880

    Bender, Jacob, white male, age 50, head, married, occupation: farmer, born Germany, parents born Germany
    Melissa, white female, age 48, wife, married, occupation: housekeeping, born New York, parents born New York

    Franklin E., white male, age 22, son, single, farming, born Ohio.
    Phebe C., white female, age 17, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Mary E. white female, age 14, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Electa A., white female, age 12, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Ruby, white female, age 6, daughter, single, attended school, born Michigan

  21. 1880 Census.

    1880 Census – Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
    5 June 1880

    Bender, Jacob, white male, age 50, head, married, occupation: farmer, born Germany, parents born Germany
    Melissa, white female, age 48, wife, married, occupation: housekeeping, born New York, parents born New York

    Franklin E., white male, age 22, son, single, farming, born Ohio.
    Phebe C., white female, age 17, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Mary E. white female, age 14, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Electa A., white female, age 12, daughter, single, housekeeping, attended school, born Ohio
    Ruby, white female, age 6, daughter, single, attended school, born Michigan

  22. Letter
    from Cecile Ryan Strobel to Norma Strang Larsen.

    Cecile's Aunt Cassie became deaf in childhood and a very kind lady.

    I, Peggy, have not found other evidence of deafness. The 1880 census ask for information on deafness. Cassie is 17, and is not listed as deaf.

  23. 1900 Census.

    1900 census for Quincy Township, Branch County, Michigan
    18 Jun 1900

    Jacob Bender, head, white male, born Oct 1829, age 70, married 47 years, born Germany, parents born Germany, farmer, 0 months not employed, can read, write, speak, English. Owned farm free of mortgage.

    Melissa, wife, white female, born Dec 1831, age 68, married 47 years, 7 children, 5 now living, born New York, parents born New York,.

    Phebe, daughter, white female, born July 1863, age 36, single, no children, born Ohio, father, Germany, mother New York.

  24. 1910 Census.

    1910 Census for Quincy, Branch County, Michigan
    30 April 1910

    George B. Soper, head, white male, age 52,second marriage, married 3 years, born Ohio, father born Ohio, carpenter
    Catherine, wife, white female, age 46, first marriage, married 3 years, no children, born Ohio, Father born Germany, Mother born NY.

  25. 1920 Census.

    1920 Census for Quincy village, Quincy Township, Branch County, Michigan
    7 & 8 January 1920

    4 Hawley Street
    Bender, Jacob, Head, owns farm, white male, age 90, immigrated in 1829, was not naturalized, no occupation
    Soper, Phebe C., daughter, white female, age 56, widowed, born Ohio, no occupation

  26. 1920 Census.

    1920 Census for Quincy village, Quincy Township, Branch County, Michigan
    7 & 8 January 1920

    4 Hawley Street
    Bender, Jacob, Head, owns farm, white male, age 90, immigrated in 1829, was not naturalized, no occupation
    Soper, Phebe C., daughter, white female, age 56, widowed, born Ohio, no occupation

  27. 1920 Census.

    1920 Census for Quincy village, Quincy Township, Branch County, Michigan
    7 & 8 January 1920

    4 Hawley Street
    Bender, Jacob, Head, owns farm, white male, age 90, immigrated in 1829, was not naturalized, no occupation
    Soper, Phebe C., daughter, white female, age 56, widowed, born Ohio, no occupation

  28. 1930 Census.

    1930 Census for Coldwater, Branch County, Michigan
    13 Apr 1930

    Kelsey H. Watson, head, owns 1200, white male, age 66, married, first married age 21, born Ohio, parents born Ohio, agent for household cement.

    Cassie Kelsey, wife, white female, age 66, first married age 43, born Ohio, parents born Germany.

  29. Newspaper
    Obituary for Catherine Bender Kelsey.

    Saturday, February 6, 1954

    Dies Friday at Hospital

    QUINCY – Mrs. Catherine (Cassie) Bender Kelsey, 90, died Friday in Coldwater following a long illness. Funeral services will be held at the Rawson funeral home Sunday afternoon, at 2 o’clock, with Elmer Anderson officiating. Burial will be made at Lakeview cemetery.

    She was born July 5, 1863, at Lorain, Ohio, the daughter of Jacob and Melissa (Van Orsdal) Bender. She was married to Watson Kelsey who preceded her in death 20 years ago.

    She is survived by one sister, Mrs. Mary Sisson of Romulus; a niece, Mrs. Cecile Strobel of Detroit; and several other nieces and nephews.

    Mrs. Kelsey had lived almost her entire life in Quincy and vicinity.

  30. Letter
    from Cecile to Norma Strang Larsen.

    I don't want the beginning of this letter to be completely on the morbid side, but just one more paragraph of that nature.

    Aunt Cassie died February 5th. I was with her for ten days prior to her death and I'm glad I could be as there was no one else who would or could have done the same. She was in her 91st year and life had grown to be a great burden to her. Her resources were nearly depleted so I drew on my own funds to provide the kind of burial she deserved.

  31.   GEDCOM file submitted by From Bruce Bender. Created on 26 NOV 2006. Imported on 26 Nov 2006..