Person:Mary Toner (7)

Watchers
  • HHugh CassidyAbt 1838 - Abt 1898
  • WMary TonerAbt 1840 - 1925
m. Abt 1860
  1. Sarah Louise Cassidy1873 - 1939
Facts and Events
Name Mary Toner
Gender Female
Birth[1] Abt 1840 County Monaghan, Ireland
Marriage Abt 1860 County Monaghan, Irelandto Hugh Cassidy
Residence[2] 1885 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States32 Miller
Other[3] 13 Jun 1890 appeared on a ship's manifest from Ireland with her younger children
Residence[4] 1898 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States45 Elm St.
Residence[5] 1901 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States77 Elm St.
Residence[6] 1907 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States77 Elm St.
Census[7] 18 Apr 1910 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States
Residence[8] 18 Apr 1910 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United Stateswith her son Frank, her daughter Sarah Fitzpatrick and Sarah's family, at 41 Hill St.
Residence[9] 1915 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United Statesas a boarder, 41 Hill St.
Residence[10] 1923 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States41 Hill St.
Residence[11] 1925 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States41 Hill St.
Death? 19 Nov 1925 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United Statesat home, 41 Hill St.
Obituary[12] 21 Nov 1925 Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United StatesHer obituary appeared in the Stamford Advocate on Saturday
Burial? 23 Nov 1925 Darien, Fairfield, Connecticut, United StatesSt. Johns Catholic Cemetery
Other? had 11 brothers (Mary was the only girl in the family)
Other? was, according to her obituary, sister to the late Joseph and James Toner
Other? Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United Stateshad 12 children, nine living as of the 1910 census
Physical Description? spoke with a British accent, not an Irish brogue
Religion? Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, United Stateswas a devout member of St. Mary's Roman Catholic Church
References
  1. county per granddaughter Frances Marie (Fitzpatrick) Trefry -- but it's possible that this just refers to the fact that Mary's children were baptised there, so she may have just lived there after marrying.
  2. as Mrs. Hugh Cassidy - Stamford Directory NOTE: Since Sarah Louise and the younger siblings certainly were born in Ireland, according to family history, censuses and immigration records, the obituary's statement that she was a resident of Stamford for 55 years has to be wrong -- but it is conceivable that it was a typo and should have read 45 years.
  3. Mary Cassidy 54, wife, unreadable girl's name starting with C [Catherine] 18, spinster, Sarah, 16, spinster, Frank 14, laborer, Joe 11 on ship manifest.
  4. Mary, widow Hugh - Stamford directory
  5. Stamford directory NOTE:: Joseph, Joseph R. and P. Henry Toner all boarded at 75 Elm in the same year - almost certainly her brothers or nephews -- Joseph, carman; Joseph R, letter carrier; P. Henry, expressman, (says boards, do, which indicated that he worked where he lived.) Joseph A. Toner was a bartender who boarded at 82 Elm and worked at 84 Elm
  6. Stamford directory as Mary, widow of Hugh
  7. Her name, and her son's, appears to be written as Cassaid or Casaid (transcribed as Carraid)
  8. On 1910 census - original mis-transcribed as Mary "Caraid" (probably should have been read as Casaid - which would be a good approximation of Cassidy)
  9. Stamford Directory
  10. Stamford Directory, Mary, widow of Hugh
  11. Stamford Directory Mary, widow of Hugh
  12. MRS. MARY CASSIDY Mrs. Mary Cassidy died at her home 41 Hill St. Thursday evening. She had been a resident of Stamford for the past 55 years. She is survived by children, Thomas Cassidy of New York City, Mrs. Patrick Feeney, Miss Elizabeth Cassidy, Mrs. William Murphy, [ line illegible but could be "Mrs. Cornelius Fitzpatrick" (although he had already died) or Mrs. Sarah Fitzpatrick plus another name] all of Stamford. She was a sister to the late Joseph Toner and James Toner. She had 15 grandchildren grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. She was a devout member of St. Mary's R.C. Church.
    also
    Cassidy - at her residence 41 Hill St. Friday, Nov. 20, 1925, Mary, widow of the late Hugh Cassidy. Funeral from her late residence, Monday, November 23, 1925 at [illegible] and thence to St. Mary's R.C. Church at [illegible, possibly 1:45] Interment St. John's R.C. cemetery, Springdale, Conn