Person:Louis Tasistro (1)

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Louis Fitzgerald Tasistro
b.Abt 1808 Ireland
  • HLouis Fitzgerald TasistroAbt 1808 - Aft 1880
  • WAdelaide Lynch1819 - 1896
m. 5 Jun 1837
Facts and Events
Name Louis Fitzgerald Tasistro
Gender Male
Birth[2] Abt 1808 Ireland
Marriage 5 Jun 1837 New York City, New York, United Statesto Adelaide Lynch
Death[2] Aft 1880 Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Title (nobility)[1] Count Citation needed ; his title was questioned
References
  1. Gouverneur, Marian. As I Remember: recollections of American society during the nineteenth century. (New York and London: D. Appleton and Company, 1911)
    25.

    Count Louis Fitzgerald Tasistro had recently arrived in New York, and his engagement to Adelaide Lynch, a daughter of Judge James Lynch, of an old New York family, was soon announced. On the voyage to America he had made the acquaintance of a son of Lord Henry Gage of England, whose principal object in visiting this country was to make the acquaintance of his kinsman, Mr. Gouverneur Kemble. Through his instrumentality Tasistro was introduced into New York's most exclusive set, and soon became the lion of the hour. We girls discussed the engagement and subsequent marriage of the distinguished[25] foreigner (sub rosa, of course), and to our childish vision pictured a wonderful career for this New York girl. The marriage, however, soon terminated unfortunately, and to the day of his death Tasistro's origin remained a mystery. He was an intellectual man of fine presence and skilled in a number of foreign languages. He claimed he was a graduate of Dublin College. Many years later, after I had become more familiar with title-bearing foreigners, Tasistro again crossed my path in Washington, where he was acting as a translator in the State Department; but after a few years, owing to an affection of the eyes, he was obliged to give up this position, and his condition was one of destitution. Through the instrumentality of my husband he obtained an annuity from his son, whom, by the way, he never knew; and for some years, in a spirit of gratitude, taught my children French. His last literary effort was the translation of the first two volumes of the Comte de Paris's "History of the Civil War in America." His devotion to my husband was pathetic, and I have frequently heard the Count say during the last years of his life that he never met him without some good fortune immediately following.

    After Mr. Gouverneur's death I received the following letter from Tasistro, which is so beautiful in diction that I take pleasure in inserting it:

    Washington, April 26, 1880.

    My dear Mrs. Gouverneur,

    Had I obeyed implicitly the impulses of my heart, or been less deeply affected by the great loss which will ever render the 5th of April a day of sad & bitter memories to me, I should perhaps have been more expeditious in rendering to you the poor tribute of my condolence for the terrible bereavement which it has pleased the Supreme Ruler of all things to afflict you with.

    My own particular grief in thus losing the best & most valued friend I ever had on earth, receives additional[26] poignancy from the fact that, although duly impressed with an abiding sense of the imperishable obligation, conferred upon me by my lamented friend, I have been debarred, by my own physical infirmities, from proffering those services which it would have afforded me so much consolation to perform.

    I should be loath, however, to start on my own journey for that shadowy land whose dim outlines are becoming daily more & more visible to my mental eye, without leaving some kind of record attesting to the depth of my appreciation of all the noble attributes which clustered around your husband's character—of my intense & lasting gratitude for his generous exertions in my behalf, & my profound sympathy for you personally in this hour of sorrow & affliction.

    Hoping that you may find strength adequate to the emergency, I remain, with great respect,

    Your devoted servant,

    L. F. Tasistro.

  2. 2.0 2.1 G89B-WGC, in FamilySearch Family Tree
    includes sources, last accessed Jul 2021.