Person:Carmen Alexander (1)

murdered, probably stabbed or shot by boyfriend or husband

Is Alexander her husband's name? Is Alexander her mother's maiden name?

Can't seem to find her death information. Was she using a different last name?

Listed as "Carmen Alexander" in James Junior and James Senior's obituaries.

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   findagrave.com not listed

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   Montgomery County, Ohio cemetery inscriptions. Vol. IV, Harrison Township. Book D, Greencastle Cemetery, New, 1941-active
   
   NOT LISTED, her brother IS listed

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   Maybe?
   Ohio, Marriage Abstracts, 1970, 1972-2007No Image
   Name: Carmen Alexander
   Age: 32
   Birth Year: abt 1946
   Residence County: Montgomery
   Times Married: 2
   Spouse's name: Samuel D Jordan
   Spouse's Age: 36
   Spouse's Birth Year: abt 1942
   Spouse's Residence County: Montgomery
   Marriage Date: 24 Feb 1978
   Marriage License County: Montgomery
   Certificate Number: 11835
   Volume Number: 9359
   Source Citation Ohio Department of Health; Columbus, Ohio; Ohio Marriage Index, 1970 and 1972-2007
   Source Information Ancestry.com. Ohio, Marriage Abstracts, 1970, 1972-2007 [database on-line]. Provo, UT: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc, 2010.
   Original data: Ohio Marriage Index, 1970 and 1972-2007. Columbus, Ohio: Ohio Department of Health, Office of Vital Statistics, 2008.

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   Maybe?
   Ohio, Divorce Abstracts, 1962-1963, 1967-1971, 1973-2007
   Name: Carmen Alexander
   Birth Year: 1945
   Times Married: 2
   Residence: Dayton, Montgomery
   Spouse's name: Curtis Alexander
   Spouse's Birth Year: 1926
   Spouse - Times Married: 2
   Spouse's Residence: Dayton, Montgomery
   Marriage Duration (Years): 03
   Number of Minor Children: 1
   Grounds for Divorce: Gross Neglect/Extreme Cruelty
   To Whom Decree Granted: Wife
   County of Decree: Montgomery
   Decree Date: 26 Nov 1974
   Cerificate Number: 43344
   Volume Number: 3008
   Source Citation Ohio Department of Health; Columbus, Ohio; Ohio Divorce Index, 1962-1963, 1967-1971 and 1973-2007
   Source Information Ancestry.com. Ohio, Divorce Abstracts, 1962-1963, 1967-1971, 1973-2007 [database on-line]. Provo, UT: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc, 2010.
   Original data: Ohio Divorce Index, 1962-1963, 1967-1971, 1973-2007. Columbus, Ohio: Ohio Department of Health, Office of Vital Statistics, 2008.
   
   IF this is the right couple, this seems to be the husband:
   
   Ohio, Death Records, 1908-1932, 1938-2007
   
   Name: Curtis Alexander
   Birth Date: 1927
   Birth Place: Georgia, United States
   Gender: Male
   Race: Non-white
   Residence Place: Dayton, Montgomery, Ohio, United States
   Death Date: 21 Jan 1984
   Hospital of Death: Veterans Adm. Med. Ctr
   Death Place: Dayton, Montgomery, Ohio, USA
   Certificate: 013122
   Age at Death: 57
   Certifier: Physician
   Autopsy: No Autopsy performed
   Social Security Number: 254-30-2001
   Marital status: Divorced
   
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   U.S. Veterans' Gravesites, ca.1775-2006
   
   U.S. Veterans' Gravesites, ca.1775-2006No Image
   Text-only collection
   Name: Curtis M Sr Alexander
   Service Info.: PVT US ARMY WORLD WAR II
   Birth Date: 12 Jul 1926
   Death Date: 21 Jan 1984
   Service Start Date: 5 Jul 1945
   Interment Date: 26 Jan 1984
   Cemetery: Dayton National Cemetery
   Cemetery Address: VA Medical Center 4100 West Third Street Dayton, OH 45428
   Buried At: Section 19 Site 718
   Source Information
   National Cemetery Administration. U.S. Veterans' Gravesites, ca.1775-2006 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2006.

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   Maybe?
   
   Ohio, Marriage Abstracts, 1970, 1972-2007
   
   Ohio, Marriage Abstracts, 1970, 1972-2007No Image
   Text-only collection
   Name: Carmen D Alexander
   Age: 24
   Birth Year: abt 1964
   Residence County: Montgomery
   Spouse's name: Jeramy B Nelson
   Spouse's Age: 25
   Spouse's Birth Year: abt 1963
   Spouse's Residence County: Montgomery
   Marriage Date: 14 May 1988
   Marriage License County: Montgomery
   Certificate Number: 55407
   Volume Number: 13859
   Source Citation
   Ohio Department of Health; Columbus, Ohio; Ohio Marriage Index, 1970 and 1972-2007
   
   Source Information
   Ancestry.com. Ohio, Marriage Abstracts, 1970, 1972-2007 [database on-line]. Provo, UT: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc, 2010.
   
   Original data: Ohio Marriage Index, 1970 and 1972-2007. Columbus, Ohio: Ohio Department of Health, Office of Vital Statistics, 2008.