"Ichabod Warner married (2) February 4, 1748, Sarah Phelps of Lebanon (Connecticut marriages, 2:44), who survived him and is probably the widow Sarah Warner who died
June 2, 1783, aged 78 (Abington Congregational Church records). She joined the church in Windham in 1748. There were probably no children by this marriage."
Joseph Phelps married Sarah Curtis in 1708; she could not have died 1783 age 78 (3 years old in 1708).