"Ruth (Gilbert), b (out of wedlock) c. 1773, bp (as child of Sarah Cooper) 18 May 1777 (church record, Second Congregational Society, New Haven), d Mar 12 1806 æ. 33 (gravestone, Hamden Plains Cemetery, Highwood, Hamden); m (as Ruth Gilbert) 21 Feb 1797 (church record, First Congregational Society, New Haven) Amos Warner."