Person:Hlu-Ah-to-Me Unknown (1)

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Hlu-ah-to-me _____
b.1863
  1. Hlu-ah-to-me _____1863 - 1928
  1. Homer Bigheart1896 - 1919
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Name[2] Hlu-ah-to-me _____
Married Name[1] Grace Bigheart
Married Name[1] Mrs. John Bigheart
Gender Female
Birth[1] 1863 approximately
Alt Birth[5] Jan 1868 Kansas, United States
Alt Birth[4] 1869
Marriage to John Bigheart, Sr
Death[1][3][4] 18 Nov 1928 Osage, Oklahoma, United Statesabout 65 years old
Nationality[1] Osage

Some sources say Lizzie was her mother, but this newspaper says she was HALF sibling to Anna and Rita. There is also an age gap between her and Anna, Rita, Mollie, and Minnie which may suggest that Jimmy/Ne-kah-e-se-y had a first wife.

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  1. 1.0 1.1 1.2 1.3 1.4 .

    The Tulsa Tribune
    Tue, Nov 20, 1928 ·Page 18

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    Hlu-ah-to-me Grace Bigheart
    Birth: 1 Jan 1868 Osage County, Oklahoma, USA
    Death: 18 Nov 1928 (aged 60) Indian Village, Osage County, Oklahoma, USA
    Burial: Greyhorse Indian Village Cemetery, Gray Horse, Osage County, Oklahoma, USA
    Memorial #: 26127185
    Hlu-ah-to-me
    Family Members
    Parents
    James "Jimmy" Ne-Kah-Es-Sey 1833-1913
    Lizzie Ne Kah Es Sey 1848-1921
    Spouse
    John Bigheart Sr 1865-1939
    Siblings
    Anna Kyle Brown 1885-1921
    Mollie Kyle Roan-Burkhart-Cobb 1886-1937
    Minnie Kyle Smith 1889-1918
    Reta Kyle Smith 1891-1923
    Children
    Joseph Francis Bigheart 1889-1923
    Homer Bigheart 1896-1919
    Mary Bigheart Kennedy 1898-1984
    Don Bigheart 1903-1917
    Created by: JNB (46904070)
    Added: 2008-04-19T07:24:37.000Z
    URL: https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/26127185/hlu-ah-to-me_grace_bigheart
    Citation: Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/26127185/hlu-ah-to-me_grace-bigheart: accessed May 11, 2024), memorial page for Hlu-ah-to-me Grace Bigheart (1 Jan 1868–18 Nov 1928), Find a Grave Memorial ID 26127185, citing Greyhorse Indian Village Cemetery, Gray Horse, Osage County, Oklahoma, USA; Maintained by JNB (contributor 46904070).

  3. Oklahoma State Vital Records Index.

    Death Search Results
    Last Name First Name Middle Name Gender Death County Death Month Death Day Death Year
    BIGHEART ROSA ELLEN F Osage 3 19 1913
    BIGHEART MARY F Osage 3 8 1918
    BIGHEART ROSA F Osage 11 11 1918
    BIGHEART ANNA L F Osage 6 1 1926
    BIGHEART GRACE F Osage 11 18 1928
    BIGHEART SADIE B F Osage 12 8 1978
    BIGHEART WILMA J F Osage 6 25 1979
    BIGHEART RUBY A F Osage 7 17 1990
    BIGHEART AMBER J F Osage 4 14 2004

    https://ok2explore.health.ok.gov/App/DeathSearch

  4. 4.0 4.1 .

    Name: Grace Bigheart
    Sex: Female
    Age: 59 years (59 years)
    Birth Year (Estimated): 1869
    Tribe or Clan: Osage
    Event Type: Death
    Event Date: 18 November 1928
    Event Place: Osage Township, Lincoln, Oklahoma, United States (Osage Township, Lincoln, Oklahoma, United States)
    Line Number: 890
    Affiliate Publication Number: M595
    Affiliate Publication Title: Native American birth and death records for various tribes.

    Digital Folder Number: 007141524
    Image Number: 622

    Citing this Record
    "United States, Native American Birth and Death Records, 1885-1940", , FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QLYG-GQLG : Sat Mar 09 00:55:41 UTC 2024), Entry for Grace Bigheart, 18 November 1928.

  5. .

    Name: Hul-Ah-Ti-Me- Hul-Ah-Te-We
    Sex: Female
    Age: 32 years
    Birth Date: January 1868
    Birthplace: Kansas
    Marital Status: Married
    Race: Indian
    Number of Living Children: 2
    Years Married: 14
    Number of Children: 3
    Relationship to Head of Household: Wife
    Father's Birthplace: Kansas
    Mother's Birthplace: Kansas
    Event Type: Census
    Event Date: 1900
    Event Place: Woods, Oklahoma, United States (Woods, Oklahoma, United States)
    Household Identifier: 36
    Line Number: 40
    Sheet Letter: B
    Sheet Number: 63
    Affiliate Publication Number: T623
    Affiliate Name: The U.S. National Archives and Records Administration (NARA)

    Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
    Wah-Sis-Tah Wah-Sis-Tah Son M 13 years Oklahoma
    Wah-She-Wah-Hah Husband M 34 years Kansas
    Me-Grab-Tah Me-Grah-Tah F 29 years Oklahoma
    UNKNOWN U

    Digital Folder Number: 004119039
    Microfilm Number: 1241344
    Image Number: 720
    Indexing Batch: N01988-1

    Citing this Record
    "United States Census, 1900", , FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MSRV-CWB : Thu Apr 11 18:52:28 UTC 2024), Entry for Wah-She-Wah-Hah and Hul-Ah-Ti-Me- Hul-Ah-Te-We, 1900.

  6.   Grann, David. Killers of the Flower Moon: The Osage Murders and the Birth of the FBI. (Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group, 2018).

    Sources say she died of tuberculosis, but one hypothesis is that she was denied treatment by her ward with the intention that she would die.