"Welthea (Gilbert),6 … married 23 May 1781 (as second wife) Silvanus Tinker of East Haddam, Conn., … son of Amos, Jr., and Lucy Lee (Smith) Tinker."
"Tinker, Silvanus, of East Haddam, m. Mrs. Wealthy Gilbert, of Lebanon, May 23, 1781 [2:4]"