After the death of John Ashton, 'his widow Grace married a man named James Kay [citing Dorman, J.F. Westmoreland County Virginia Order Book 1672-1682. p. 10, 8 Oct 1679.'
Grace 'was married to a man named James Kay by December of 1678 [citing Dorman, John F. ed., Westmoreland County, Virginia Order Book 1679-1682 p. 2], ...'