"Barnabas (Baldwin) … m (1) Huldah da Enoch & Mary (Alling) Baldwin, bp 2 Sep 1764 NHC2, d 8 Dec 1801 æ. 88 (gravestone, Graveyard, Milford Side, Woodbridge), 15 Dec (church record, Congregational Society, Woodbridge); m (2) Oct 1803 (church record, Congregational Society, Woodbridge) Wid. Jerusha Sanford, who d 26 Sep 1811 æ. 72 (church record, Congregational Society, Woodbridge).
It is apparent from Ms. Tracy's abstract of the Amity Parish records that Jerusha married Barnabas the father, not Barnabas the son.