Person:Alice Bethell (1)

Alice Woodward's mother died of TB when Alice was 1 year old. Her father kept her out of school, fearing for her fragility, should the disease strike again. She was the youngest of seven children.

Alice accompanied her father on the farm at Te Henga/Bethells, fishing, on trips to Waitakere and visits to Te Kawerau Maori settlement at Waiti. She learned from the Waiti girls how to bait hooks by tying a mussel on with a hair from her head.

The Bethells family accommodated tourists to Bethells, who arrived by train at Waitakere station and walked the rest of the way, or from the boat at Whatipu.

To allow her education, land was bought in Avondale and a house built there as a winter base. Alice attended Auckland Girls Grammar School, but always felt her best education was from visitors to the farm.

One regular was Alfred Shrewsbury, an Oxford don who papered his room with prints from catalogues from the Tate Gallery, London, and dressed formally on Sundays with a top hat and spats.

One young man who visited Te Henga frequently after World War I was William Woodward, a lawyer about to take up a position as Crown Prosecutor in Western Samoa.

He proposed two days before his departure, Alice accepted, and then spent the next six months gathering up a tropical trousseau, having piano lessons and learning to waltz.

She sailed off with her prospective mother-in-law and was married at the age of 20 in Apia.

William's diary records his thoughts: "We have been married two days, and what I loved in Alice by guess before, I now find less than the reality.

"I knew she was the dearest and now I know she is the finest girl."

The couple had four children in the next 10 years - John, Dorothy, Elizabeth and Mary - and William was appointed Chief Judge of Western Samoa.

Life for senior civil servants and their families was interesting and enjoyable, with balls and tennis parties at Government House, which had been author Robert Louis Stevenson's home, Vailima.

The idyll was brought to an end by the Mau revolt against colonial government, and the family moved back to New Zealand, where William was appointed stipendiary magistrate in New Plymouth. They settled at Maranui, a large old house with gardens, orchards, bush and a paddock.

Son Denis was the last addition to the family.

The family renewed their links with Te Henga and the Bethells during this time, by spending summer holidays at the beach.

When William returned to work, leaving the family with no transport, fishing became necessary for survival.

In the late 1960s the family moved to Auckland and settled in Lochiel Rd, Remuera.

After William's death in 1970, Alice set off on her own to visit her elder son, John, and his wife, Adair, in Ethiopia, where he was working for a refugee organisation.

The unsettled political climate made life interesting, and journeys were made with Adair driving the car and Alice riding shotgun, armed with her son's pistol in case of danger.

The only thing that really frightened Alice in Addis Ababa was the sound of hyenas howling outside the compound fence.

In 1995, she moved to a retirement home, and died there on May 14.

Her funeral service was enhanced by an oratory delivered by Te Warena Taua, of Te Kawerau, with whom the Bethells had been associated for so long.

Alice is survived by four children, 18 grandchildren, 28 great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren.

From the NZ Herald obituary.

1. ↑ Phoebe Falconer. Obituary: Alice Woodward.